Why would someone be obligated to communicate with an ex?

 

· Narcissists,Main

All of our clients share minor children with their exes. Because of the shared custody or visitation, our clients have to be in regular communication with the children's other parent.

Pickup times can change. Vacation scheduling. Who has the kids for the upcoming holidays? Etc. These ongoing communications provide an open door to the narcissist to continue to abuse through gas-lighting messages.

Narcissist exes can cause an array of emotional difficulties for their target/supply. And often, they know just what to say to get to you.

We take all of that away by intercepting ALL of the communication and becoming the filter. We take and respond to the vast majority of emails so that our clients do not have to. When we can't answer a question, we ask for the information privately never relaying any of the gaslighting that their ex attempts.