The narcissist lives in a constant state of chaos. Their internal world is complete bedlam. The mind of a narcissist is disordered and in a constant state of pendemonium. It is impossible to manage, fix or improve the narcissist. It simply cannot be done. The narcissist has never emotionally matured past a certain point from their childhood. They may be stuck at the emotional maturity of a six-year-old. (arrested development)

Because the narcissist is in a permanent state of mahem, they make attempts to control their environment. That may sound nice and sweet, but to their target, it is a nightmare. The narccissit's desire for control is like a vampire's drive to drink blood. He will destroy anyone or anything to get control.

The narcissist is a disordered human. They don't have the ability to be introspective, empathetic or caring. It is impossible. They know full well what they are doing, but they don't care about or understand the pain and destruction they are causing.

Couple their desire for control with their arrested development and you have an anarchist child in an adult's body running around causing amayhem wherever they go.

If you're waiting on your narcissist to "get better" or make good on their promises to change or "never do it again" then you're going to wait a very, very long time. And I think I wanted to write this post to help the reader beging to wrap their head around a few realities.

1. Turmoil: a state of great disturbance, confusion, or uncertainty.
2. Disorder: a lack of order or organization, often characterized by confusion or disruption.
3. Pandemonium: a state of wild and noisy disorder, often associated with mass panic or confusion.
4. Anarchy: a state of lawlessness or political disorder, often characterized by a lack of government or authority.
5. Bedlam: a state of extreme chaos or confusion, often associated with a loud and noisy environment.
6. Mayhem: a state of violent or chaotic disorder, often associated with a sudden and unexpected event.
7. Havoc: widespread destruction or chaos, often caused by a natural disaster or other catastrophic event
8. Tumult: a state of commotion, confusion, or disorder, often associated with a large and noisy crowd.